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Houston Podcast Explains Foster Care, Adoption Processes

An hourlong feature on Houston’s public radio station last week put a spotlight on the ways that DePelchin serves children and families through foster care and adoption.

Arnold Valdez, DePelchin’s Vice President for Foster Care and Residential Services, was a featured guest on Townsquare, an afternoon radio show and podcast on Houston Public Media hosted by Ernie Manouse. The conversation explained the process of becoming a foster parent and how fostering is often a prelude to adoption. Guests, including family law and adoption attorney Rodney Jones, also emphasized the importance of working with an established, reputable agency such as DePelchin, which has been in operation for 130 years.

Valdez explained how DePelchin staff work to find the right home for each child, and that most adoptions come through foster care or kinship care, which is a type of foster care in which a relative cares for the child.

“No matter how you’re adopting, the process needs to be about the child and less about you,” he said. “It can’t be about getting the family’s needs met. It’s got to be about meeting the needs of the child, and in that process, the family’s needs will be met.”

The show also touched on the fact that there are not currently enough foster homes in Texas for children who need them, and that older children and sibling groups tend to stay in foster care for longer periods of time. Valdez emphasized that DePelchin works with a variety of families — single adults and couples — to find the right home for children.

“We have all different kinds of families,” he said.

The audio of the hourlong interview is available here.

For more information about becoming a foster or adoptive parent through DePelchin, including details about upcoming informational orientations, please visit this page.

DePelchin Provides 900 Backpacks to Students Heading Back to School

A group of kids with new school supplies

Hundreds of children are heading back to school with the supplies they need thanks to the generosity of DePelchin donors.

Throughout the summer, DePelchin donors, staff, and volunteers have worked to fill 900 new backpacks with school supplies such as paper, binders, and pencils and pens. Volunteers have spent many hours at the DePelchin Donation Station in Houston sorting supplies and stuffing backpacks to ensure they are ready for school, which is beginning this month across Texas.  The backpacks are being distributed to children involved with foster care and other DePelchin programs in Houston, San Antonio, Austin, and Lubbock. DePelchin provides the backpacks in order to help students start the year successfully and as a way to support families providing foster care.

The Back-to-School Drive is a DePelchin tradition that recognizes the importance of supporting children and youth not only by connecting them with loving foster families, but also by helping to meet their academic and other needs. The organization also provides school-based, no-cost individual counseling to students in elementary, middle and high schools on 20 campuses and in four school districts throughout Greater Houston and Baytown.

These services are designed to address the social and emotional needs of children and teenagers who may be facing trauma, anger, depression, grief, anxiety, family conflict, or social struggles. If requested by a school, clinicians can also work with students in groups to address issues such as self-esteem, grief, and anger management.

DePelchin is profoundly grateful to all of the donors and volunteers who have made it possible for us to equip so many students with backpacks to start the year. We will continue to support these students and their families in order to help them succeed in school — and well beyond.

News Story on Family That Fostered, Adopted Through DePelchin

A family playing a card game

An Austin-area family that has fostered and adopted children through DePelchin was recently featured on a KVUE news report drawing attention to children and youth who continue to need families to provide them care.

The report put a spotlight on Dan and Alicia Feldman, a Hutto couple who has fostered children for 10 years. The Feldmans have three children — two of whom they adopted after fostering — and currently provide foster care for an 8-month-old boy who came to them straight from the NICU. “Every morning I ask him, ‘Why are you so cute?'” said Joshua, who is the Feldmans’ oldest child.

While Joshua is the only child who was born to the Feldmans, his two sisters are actually sisters by birth. Sibling groups, as well as older children and those with special needs, are often more difficult to place in foster care. The story reports that, at the end of March, there were nearly 13,000 children in foster care in Texas, with more than 1,700 in Central Texas.

The Feldman family has fostered seven children, and they often take emergency placements, which means they get little notice before they are asked to take a child into their homes. They tend to foster children who are 2 years old or younger.

“Every time you hold a baby, inside their little brain it’s like, ‘Yes, yes, yes, this is what I’m supposed to do. This is what’s supposed to be given to me,’” Alicia Feldman said. “So, we hold all the babies all the time.”

DePelchin Children’s Center continues to look for more foster families to serve children and youth in the Houston, Austin, San Antonio, and Lubbock areas. For more information about becoming a foster family and to learn about upcoming orientations, please visit this page on our website.

We are grateful for the Feldman family and all of those who provide foster care through DePelchin. We look forward to answering your questions about providing foster care for children and youth who need a safe and loving home.

A Time to Celebrate Fathers and Father Figures

This weekend is a special time to celebrate fathers and father figures, and here at DePelchin, we are proud of our work to support fathers and the critical role they play in children’s lives.

Much of our work at DePelchin centers on helping parents, from the support we provide to foster families to the classes we provide parents and the counseling we make available to the families we serve. Some of our most popular programs focus specifically on serving fathers. We give fathers strategies that will help them care for children, communicate, and partner with other adults and family members to provide a supportive environment for their children. In fact, earlier this month, DePelchin hosted a two-day summit to provide fathers a chance to learn and fellowship with others. More than 100 people attended, and they heard from experts and had a great chance to share their experiences with others navigating the familiar challenges of fatherhood. Thanks to the support of some generous sponsors and donors, the event was a real success and we hope to bring it back again next year.

If you or someone you know would like more information about our programs for parents, please visit this page on our website.

This weekend, we celebrate the fathers, step-fathers, grandfathers, and so many others who love and care for the children around them. We also want to celebrate the DePelchin supporters whose generosity allows us to offer all programs that create and nurture stronger families. The support of our donors allows us to reach more and more families with all of our programs for fathers, mothers, other family members, and (most importantly) children and youth.

Happy Father’s Day! And to anyone who helps provide a safe and loving home for children: Thank you.